The Confidence Trick

I often get asked about confidence, or can I give someone confidence.  The answer is always no.  And here’s why: We are told, or we tell ourselves: If only I had more confidence… I’ve lost my confidence… I need to find my confidence first… As if the confidence thing we Read more…

Relationships and skiing

Article by Alison Sutton, relationship specialist at Skicology Have you ever perused any dating websites? I have to admit that I have, off and on. In their effort to impress it is very common for men to present their best action shots- of them sailing, running and skiing and for Read more…

How long does it take?

I was asked yesterday how long do I work with a client? I replied: anything from 10 minutes to a few hours. He seemed surprised.  He thought it would be days or years. Well, what’s the difference?  The intellect – or the desire for analysis.  Like with skiing, when we’re Read more…